I just wanted to direct readers to James Maliszewski’s recent post about OSRCon. He goes through exactly the kind of fear I was writing about in Chapter 1, only to find it completely unfounded.
As it turned out, I had no reason whatsoever to be concerned. I very quickly felt quite comfortable, due in no small part to Chris Cunnington’s excellent organization and discussions with me beforehand. But, much as I wish to praise Chris, even more do I wish to praise the con’s attendees, who were, to a man, some of the friendliest and most pleasant gamers I’ve had the occasion to meet. As I noted in a comment to an earlier post, gamers have a reputation for being socially awkward misfits who are in large part responsible for the bad impressions outsiders have of our shared hobby. I came away from OSRCon with the feeling that, while that description may be true of somegamers, it certainly isn’t true of most of them, certainly not any of those with whom I interacted over the course of two days. I won’t go so far as to claim that “the ugly gamer” is wholly a myth, even if I am sure that he’s not as common a creature as conventional wisdom would have us believe.
If you’re not reading James’ blog, Grognardia, you should be. And if he can GM at a convention after thirty years of playing solely with his home group, then you can, too.